Phonesex?

This is one of the most common questions I get asked by guys and gals. Why phone sex?

Most women understand the answer easier than men. To us women, our minds are our biggest sexual hot spot. If you can turn us on mentally, you’ve got us physically melting in your hand. It seems like most men, however, are more often visually aroused and haven’t experienced what it’s like to have someone put enough thought and effort into a sexual encounter to bring their minds into it.

Phone sex is the #1 safest way to explore our sexuality. There are no diseases, no face to face discomfort, and unlimited possibilities on what could happen. Watching porn is hot. Don’t get me wrong because I love popping in a DVD, kicking back on the sofa or in bed and masturbating myself. Phone sex is the next level. Instead of only being able to watch what’s happening, you and the phone sex operator are the ones making it happen. I’ve heard phone sex referred to as interactive audio porn, and darlin that’s the perfect name.

When new people find out I’m a PSO in my spare time, I hear the stereotypical “oh you get losers off who can’t get laid in real life.” That’s a common misunderstanding. Most of the men who I’m lucky enough to spend time with are middle to upper class successful men who are either between relationships, in committed relationships but are exploring fantasies their partner doesn’t enjoy, or are quite honestly just too busy for the traditional relationship at this point in their lives. They’re bright, gifted, articulate people who choose to enjoy their sexuality in a completely safe environment.

Phone sex is a trip into the perfect realm of fantasy where anything you want to happen, can and will happen. Callers and the women they call do build personal relationships all the time, and I honestly think those relationships make the calls even better. But make no mistake, fantasy is fantasy and reality is reality. Those two worlds should never be mixed. Most PSOs will not meet callers for many reasons, utmost on that list is personal safety. 99% of callers are normal sane and safe individuals. That still leaves the 1% that aren’t sane or safe. This small number is the number that all PSOs worry about. Speaking as someone who’s been harassed and stalked by a caller, it’s a scary situation nobody needs to live through. So please, don’t put yourself or the woman you’re calling in a tricky position by asking to take the fantasy to reality.

►Be safe, expand your kinkiness, and have fun◄