4 Beginners

I’m sure a lot of you reading this have already called your first phone sex line, and I’m equally sure some of you reading this haven’t yet taken that step. So here’s hoping that vets and virgins alike, this will help you find the best phone sex encounter you possibly can.

►Before you pick up the phone to call◄

1. Think about what your favorite fantasy is. When you call a sex line, the only way the woman on the other end of the phone can fulfill your fantasy is if you know what it is.

2. Ask if the phone sex line you’re thinking about calling allows that fantasy. Some companies don’t allow their women to talk about certain topics like bathroom things, minors, incest, beastiality, snuff, etc. If your fantasy falls into those categories, make sure the line you’re calling allows them.

3. If there’s a certain type of woman that makes you hot, ask for that type of woman. If barely legal makes your cock hard while middle aged makes you go limp find that barely legal beauty you can enjoy. If you want to be beat up, used like a cheap umbrella and thrown to the curb, find the woman who can cater to your desires.

4. Contact the woman beforehand if you can. Most phone sex sites have a way for you to instant message or email the women before you even call them. If you have an indepth fantasy you’re not sure she’ll enjoy, email and ask her. Keep in mind that she might be busy at that moment, but most PSOs have no problem answering questions. Just don’t waste her time or your time by trying to take advantage of emailing/IMing her trying to cyber. This is the fastest way to miss a chance at a great experience.  

5. When you connect with the woman, be honest with her about what turns you on. These women aren’t psychics. They’re kinky imaginative women and will take your fantasy and run with it. But … ONLY IF THEY KNOW WHAT IT IS. Trust me, there’s nothing you can tell that woman that she probably hasn’t heard and gotten off to before.

6. Speak clearly. I know sometimes we have to be quiet if family/roommate/coworkers are around, but if the operator can’t hear you, she can’t make your experience memorable. If you can’t talk, tell her you have to be quiet. Work out another system where if you like what she’s doing, you’ll lick/tap the phone or something. There has to be at least some communication from your end or trust me, you won’t find the call to be anywhere near as fun as it could be.

7. When you’re ready to hang up, say thanks, goodbye. Those 2 words only take a second to say, and there’s nothing worse than spending awhile with someone thinking you’re both having a great time only to have the phone hung up in your ear. I know some people are shy and understand that because I myself am shy in some situations. But think of this … you’re out on a date with a woman, in the middle of the date she just stands up and walks off not saying goodbye or anything. Doesn’t that make you feel like you did something wrong and makes you feel like crap? The same thing applies here. If nothing else, send her an email afterwards letting her know you had fun.

If you remember nothing else from this little guide, remember this … A phone sex operator may be being paid to talk with you, but that doesn’t mean she has to put up with rudeness. Being rude will only hurt yourself because I guarantee she won’t go the extra step for a rude fucker to make him happy and she would for a nice man. If you want to have fun, you need to tell her what you enjoy.